I have made it a personal goal of mine to approach each day with a smile and a positive attitude. Some days are certainly harder than others, but as long as I work at it, I generally succeed……I did say generally, I am only human and just like everyone I have days where I keep to myself and avoid seeing and talking to people.
The difference here is that I recognize I am not in a good mood, acknowledge it, and purposely try to keep to myself so as not to affect others. You know what? We are all busy, we all have daily life challenges, and we all have some crap going on to deal with! I just want to stress that just because you may feel like a miserable cow doesn’t mean you need to bring others down with you!!!!
I just HATE being around people that think that everyone needs to know how life has wronged them, how they have “Way too much to do!” , how everything is “so expensive!”, etc., etc., etc.,! WE ALL DO!!!!!!! That’s called life and it’s the CHOICES that we make that can make or break us. I purposely CHOOSE to avoid people, or keep to myself if I am feeling negative because I am quite aware that what is going to come out of my mouth won’t help!
When we are around those “negative, dark, cloudy” people we can’t help but be brought down with them. What do I do? I try and say something positive, and I LEAVE! I refuse to let someone ruin my day just because they think the world is out to get them! It’s not worth it! Life is too short to waste time with people who don’t affect you positively.
I want you, my loyal followers, to really think about these things as you surround yourself with people. Who do you realize is your “dark cloud”? Who makes you feel good? How can I help this person to see the good rather than the evil??
Life is a series of choices, let’s try to spread positivity and happiness. I LOVE to smile, and am thrilled to hear that my smile makes those around me smile to. 🙂 🙂 🙂
Always remember those wise words from your mother…..“If you don’t have anything nice to say to say, don’t say anything at all!”
Love, smiles, and hugs to all my fit2borganized followers.
Please feel free to comment, and add suggestions as to what you would like me to tackle in this year’s blogs!
Your Simply Susan SMILE of the day!!